How To Become An Escort
If you’ve decided that you want to become an escort, or you’re considering becoming an escort, the best thing you can possibly do is take some time to read as much as possible. The first thing I want to make clear on this page is I have never been an escort, I am not an escort, I have never run an escort agency and I don’t claim to make this page a be all end all on how to become an escort. I am simply a “John” ( a term used for the men who see escorts) and I am writing this page because although I do not feel I have all the information you need, I feel like I can at least offer some helpful advice. If you read this page and make one of your clients a bit happier, avoid a scummy person or make a few extra bucks then I will consider this page a success.
Research Becoming An Escort
There are some sites out there who can give you advice on being an escort, there are some escort diaries etc. If I were you I would spend a couple hours a day over the next few weeks reading as much as you can. One of the best sources for information you can get is by reading actual reviews of escorts and seeing what guys like and dislike. The better you can make the service you offer, the better off you will be. Every one makes mistakes and you can expect to make mistakes as you go, however if you can avoid making some of the bigger mistakes it will definitely help you. So like I said, read as much as possible and try to learn from what you’re reading. If you do this alone, you’ll be 100% better off than most escorts out there.
Escorting as an Independent Escort or with an Escort Agency?
Are you an entrepreneurial type of person? Do you like calling the shots and being held responsible for the success or failure of your business? If the answer is yes, then you will definitely want to become an independent escort. If you prefer to show up for your job, do your work and be able to punch out and relax when you’re off the clock then you should definitely look into working for an escort agency. Being an independent escort gives you full control over your business, but it comes with a lot of responsibilities. For every hour you’re in the sack with a client, you’re going to need to put in at least 2-3 hours outside working on the marketing, your website and other aspects of your business. Working for an escort agency is great, because you don’t have to do any of that additional work, you only have to take care of your clients, but you need to realize that most escort agencies will take any where from a 60/40 split (60 you, 40 them) to a 80/20 split (80 you, 20 them).
From a “John’s” perspective, I would recommend you decide based on how long you want to do this for. If you want to get in and out, say escort for a summer to make quick money, then go with an Escort Agency. Don’t think because as an Independent Escort you’ll be able to make more money because you won’t have to split with anyone. You will make a lot more money working with the right escort agency in the first month or two then you would as an independent escort. You need to get the ball rolling and right now it’s at a complete stand still and it’s a very large, heavy ball to get rolling. If you do a good job that ball will steamroll down the hill earning you a ton of cash, but getting it moving at first can be a bit of a struggle. On the other hand if you are in it for the long haul, you know you want to work as an escort for at least 1-2 years, and you’re prepared to treat this as s proper business, then I would recommend going as an independent escort. You have more control over your image and you can do things the way you want to do them.
How escorts can avoid people with an agenda
If you’ve decided you’re going to be an escort, the first thing you need to be aware of is that a lot of people might contact you with deals, ideas and opportunities. Some of these will be legit business opportunities, but a lot of them will also be people with an agenda. If someone asks you for money up front, be very skeptical. If someone says you need to have sex with them before you get paid for what ever reason, run away. There are some sleazy guys who run escort agencies that will say they sleep with all of the girls that work for them, if someone tells you this run in the other direction as fast as you can. You are not a desperate woman looking for a pimp, you are a service provider that only providers her service when she gets paid. A situation where you may need to pay money upfront, is advertising. However when you deal with people for advertising, don’t let them talk down to you or tell you how the business works. You’ve already researched everything and you are a confident woman. You expect to be treated as a business woman, as that is what you are. If you meet up with any one for any reason, always let them know you are bringing a friend. If you don’t have a friend you can bring, let them know your friend is waiting in the car for you. Never let people think you’re coming alone.
Make friends with other escorts
If you work as an independent escort, then send a quick email to fellow independent escorts in your area just saying hi. If they have a website ask them to exchange links, or ask them a simple question like who designed their website for them. If they reply back with a nasty attitude, no harm done. But most times they will be really helpful. Networking is one letter away from not working. Don’t expect any one to hand over clients to you or to tell you where they advertise and get a bunch of calls, no one is going to stick their neck out for you. However making friends with other escorts can give you co-workers in a very lonely work environment. If you work for an escort agency make an effort to get to know some of the other escorts. They might be able to tell you how they run their incalls, which hotels they use, which hotels to avoid, how they screen their clients, etc. All valuable information which can help you from making costly mistakes.
Deciding your limits as an escort
Are you gay for pay? Do you have a problem kissing your would-be clients? Are you worried about getting diseases from giving blow jobs without a condom? All of these are things you need to decide before meeting up with clients and if you are going to work for an escort agency you should also know your limits before meeting with them. If an escort agency expects you to do things that you’re uncomfortable with, I would suggest moving on to another escort agency. No amount of money is worth doing stuff that you’re not okay with. They may say that all escorts need to kiss their clients in order to be successful and if you’re not willing to kiss your clients no matter what you do you’ll never make any money blah blah blah but the bottom line is they are your limits and you and only you decide your limits. In another page of this site I offer tips for escorts on keeping regular clients and if you read this page, I will show you how to keep clients like me happy regardless of your limits.
I would like to mention that in my opinion you can offer a very open menu, including bare back blowjobs, french kissing, letting clients perform oral sex on you and anal sex while still being very safe. Some things you can do, which don’t hurt the intimacy or chemistry of the date is always remove your clients pants for him. This allows you to check out the goods for any warts, rashes etc If all is well you can proceed, if you see anything you don’t like, you can bring it to their attention. The second area of interest is the mouth, if you think the client has a cold sore, do not proceed with the appointment.
Deciding your availability as an escort
If you have a day job, have other responsibilities, etc then obviously those will dictate your availability. However if you have a clean slate and are trying to decide what hours to be available for clients, you need to take certain factors into consideration. Do not dedicate yourself to a 24 hour schedule. You might be broke and thinking you need to work 24/7, because you’re in no position to turn down $500 in the middle of the night.. however it’s not the case. You want to make yourself available to regulars and with the odd exception regulars are going to book ahead of time. You can make yourself available via appointments with 48 hours notice 24/7 however do not answer the phone at 5am unless those are your hours or you know who’s calling and want to answer. You need to be able to be fresh and rested, and therefor setting a schedule is very important. It’s also a turn off to some guys to see that a escort says on her website she is available 24/7 as they are led to believe she is literally working around the clock.
Try making your schedule a bit of a split. There are guys who want to book appointments at 8am, and there are guys who want to book appointments at 11pm. If you can make yourself available for incalls on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday from 8am till 3pm and then on Thursday, Friday and Saturday you are available for outcalls from 3pm till midnight, that’s a very accommodating schedule which should fit the needs of almost all possible clients. By making a schedule and sticking to it, you are making yourself available to regular repeat clients.